I’m a solid Kinsey 1, so I’m primarily interested in men. What I do not have is a lot of dating experience.
Life is good, and I’m happier than I’ve ever been. By all accounts, I hit the transition jackpot-not only do I pass for cis in a skimpy bikini, I’m conventionally attractive, live in a progressive city, and have a thriving career and a lot of amazing friends. I transitioned nearly a decade ago and have had bottom surgery. Thanks for signing up! You can manage your newsletter subscriptions at any time. Cheryl from the show Archer caliber. The way that other guys get immediately hard if you play with their nipples, I get rock hard as soon as someone puts a bit of pressure on my throat. With a few tops I know-with lots of trust built and conversations before about safety, limits, clear signaling, etc.-it has gone to the point of me blacking out (after which they immediately stop). And like that Smarter Every Day video where they do the experiment with hypoxia, it’s a really weird experience! The disorientation is a bit of a trip. And, for me, also weirdly hot. One of the odder things I’ve discovered about my sexuality is that I’m into getting choked. Like … really into it. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here.
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